There are times when I look at two of my children and wonder if they have acquired any of my genes whatsoever. They look so much like their dad’s family, I used to joke with my mother-in-law that they could easily be mistaken for her kids rather than mine.
I have managed to find my imprint on Andie in the form of her finger- and toenails. That, her openness and her need for companionship are about all the two of us share. Andie’s driven, scheduled, ambitious, worried, a true Type-A.
Cody, on the other hand, inherited no physical traits from me, except for maybe his big eyes. Like me, though, he’s a voracious reader and yesterday, he said something that I identify with strongly.
I don’t get a lot of opportunity for one-on-one time with my kids, so yesterday was fun because I got to spend hours with just Cody, who does not ever stop talking, unless he’s asleep.
“Mom,” he said, as yet another thought occurred to him. “You know how it feels when a big word comes out and it just feels so GOOD to say it?”
“Yes, I do,” I said, practically overcome at this verbalization of something I’ve always felt myself, but never heard anyone say.
“Like ‘Louisiana’ and ‘tough,” he continued. “Those words sound so good.”
Definitely my child.
Sniff.
In what subtle (or even obvious) ways have you seen yourself in your kids?
Awww.
I’ve seen it too, in our house…work ethic in my oldest and the desire to always be the best at work, constantly seeking more challenge.
I’ve heard my actual words repeated from my just-turned-18 yr. old, more times than I can count. He looks the most like his father, and thinks and acts the most like me.
My 12-yr. old daughter is sensitive and susceptible to criticism at school just like I was, just like I suppose most girls that age are, and I wish she wasn’t. If only we could give the kiddos the knowledge we have later in life that they could sooooooo use now.
And the 3-yr old is just like his daddy…looks, actions, attitudes, lol, and I love him oodles.
Of course they all have their own amazing individual personalities that shine through too, but the moments like you mentioned always touch a soft spot.
So true, Rosey. I love the way you write. Thanks for your comment!